An Inspired Chat with Mx Jax-Prince Sovereign Heaux of Hollywood

Mx Jax-Prince Sovereign Heaux shared their story and experiences with us recently and you can find our conversation below.

Jax-Prince Sovereign, we’re thrilled to have you with us today. Before we jump into your intro and the heart of the interview, let’s start with a bit of an ice breaker: What are you being called to do now, that you may have been afraid of before?
A lot has happened since my last interview; namely, that I’ve been recovering at/in a Domestic Violence Shelter, following the very public and very messy breakup of my ex-boyfriend and I, after it came to light that he had cheated on me, and on Mother’s Day at that; a day when I’m already grieving the loss of not only my own mother, but my child as well.

The last year has been full of challenges, living at a shelter; however, the hardest thing I’ve been called to do that I was terrified of doing prior is breaking the generational curses that led me to where I am now.

And that means holding accountable not only myself, but tackling the root of my abuse; my abusive father, of whom I’m presently in the midst of going legally no contact with, due to his aforementioned abuse, but especially his complete lack of accountability in recognition to how his abusive actions left me not only with deep emotional and psychological scars, but left me Deaf as well.

It’s been a year of holding him and my abusive stepmom (who has the audacity to work for the State Attorney as a Domestic Violence Advocate Supervisor), and it’s led to taking legal action against them for their horrific abuse towards me that continues even to this day.

Everyone talks about breaking generational curses, but no one ever talks about how painful and lonely of a process it can be.

Fortunately, I’ve got a wonderful Village supporting me through this difficult time.

I’ve grown moreso now in the last year than in the last 36 years of life. And I’m proud of myself for moving forward.

Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
My name is Jax-Prince Sovereign Heaux, and yes, that is in fact my full, legal name, thank you very much. <3

I’m Transgender-Nonbinary, Pansexual, Autistic AF, and Deaf AF.

I’ve built a worldwide platform of over 100k+ followers and over 20 Million views as one of world’s most renowned Financial Dominatrixes, Pro Heaux (Sex Worker), an actress and voice actress, and a therapist presently in school pursuing a double PhD and PsyD in Theatre and Pyschology, respectively, to become a Doctor of both,

My life has been one of immense hardship and struggle; being a “Left Behind”; a term I’ve coined to refer to those of us who have lost a parent/direct family member/close friend to suicide. I’ve lost both my maternal grandmother and mother to suicide; leading me to pursue psychology, in order to understand what drove both to end their lives.

I’ve also survived the horrors of human trafficking and sexual slavery; having been trafficked to New York City for over a year, pimped out, and addicted to heroin and benzos.

As a result, I’ve dedicated my platform to educating the world on the difference between independent, consensual sex work and sexual slavery.

When I’m not creating content, or spending time with my lovely dog, Futaba-Oracle (of whom has spent the last year alongside me in a Domestic Violence shelter, following the public breakup of my ex who revealed he was cheating on me), I’m reading manga, playing video games, cosplaying, and nerding out.

Thanks for sharing that. Would love to go back in time and hear about how your past might have impacted who you are today. What did you believe about yourself as a child that you no longer believe?
That I am responsible for my mother and grandmother’s suicide; that I was responsible for why my father and stepmother abused me so horrifically.

It was the adults in my life that failed me; scapegoated and gaslit me.

However, now, as a healing adult, I hold my inner child and tell them it wasn’t their fault.

And that they’re safe now.

If you could say one kind thing to your younger self, what would it be?
“You’re gonna grow up into an amazing adult. Don’t give up.”

Next, maybe we can discuss some of your foundational philosophies and views? Is the public version of you the real you?
I’m very proud to say that the public version of me is in fact the real version.

Who you see on social media is exactly who you get IRL.

That hadn’t always been the case, however; I used social media as a way to put distance between the real me, and the ones people see on social media.

Once I realized there was more value in being an actual human being than just being this mysteriously guarded concept (and I stopped giving a fuck what people think of me), it was easy to make the shift because I was able to put my real self out there, failures and all.

Okay, so let’s keep going with one more question that means a lot to us: Have you ever gotten what you wanted, and found it did not satisfy you?
Ohhhhhhhhh buddy.

So, for clarification, I like to joke and say that I’m a third generation sidebitch.

What I mean, is that my mother and stepmother spent their lives as the “other woman” for a man who was still married to his first wife when he was fucking around with my mom and stepmom.

It taught me that stealing men was the right way to go, and if it was real love, it would work out.

That was absolutely not the way. I wanted a man so desperately despite him being married that it ended up leaving me homeless in a domestic violence shelter. We’d known each other for over ten years, and like many naive people who end up in situations like this, I thought he was the miserable victim of an abusive and toxic marriage, and that everything he was promising me (a future, marriage children) would work out if I just stayed loyal and playing his game.

But as a Professional Gamer, I realized this was one game I no longer wanted part of.

May that type of love never find me again, now that I realize my worth, and that I deserve more than scraps.

Contact Info:

• Instagram: @ThatHeauxOverYonder
• Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jax-prince-sovereign-heaux-a22ab0150
• Twitter: @VVVycious
• Facebook: Jax-Prince Sovereign Heaux
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@jaxjaxattaxx
• Other: Portfolio: https://jaxjaxattaxx.carrd.co/

  Domestic Violence Survivor GoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/manage/vycious-6666-domestic-violence-survivor-housing-pet-fund

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