We all think we’re being real—whether in public or in private—but the deeper challenge is questioning whether we truly know our real selves at all. In any case, even when we know ourselves we might face various pressures that push us to fit in or not cause trouble – so even the most well-intentioned person might struggle to always be 100% real in public. Sometimes the simplest questions are actually the most complex. Thankfully, we have some wonderful members of the community who offered to share their thoughts on this challenging question.
Elizabeth Estrada
I just left a job at a wine shop. That job was so fun because it allowed me to be completely my most authentic self. I got to wear the most outlandish outfits (really chill dress code) have a mullet hairstyle and have open and honest conversations with everybody who walked through the door. Read more>>
Diana Saribekian
I truly believe it is. People can sense authenticity, and when you show up as yourself, it builds trust naturally. Being fake is exhausting, and it’s almost impossible to hide — especially when you’re interacting with others in meaningful ways. As a coach, I work with both kids and adults, and that trust is everything. Read more>>
Christa Zúñiga
Absolutely yes. There aren’t two versions of Christa Zúñiga. La chica de las estaciones isn’t a persona I put on—it’s simply an extension of me. It comes from my own processes, my wounds, my healing, and the many times I’ve had to begin again. Read more>>
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