Check Out Yesenia Carrillo-Gonzalez’s Story

Today we’d like to introduce you to Yesenia Carrillo-Gonzalez.

Hi Yesenia, we’re thrilled to have a chance to learn your story today. So, before we get into specifics, maybe you can briefly walk us through how you got to where you are today?
My name is Yesenia, and I proudly come from a Hispanic community shaped by resilience, strength, and sacrifice. I was raised by a single mother who, at just 16, found herself pregnant and later endured the trauma of domestic violence. Watching my mother navigate emotional wounds and financial hardship meant that I had to grow up quickly. I often say I lost my childhood at the age of eight—the day my father walked out of my life.

My mom became both mother and father. Her unwavering strength and thick skin, born out of necessity, shaped the foundation of who I am today. Because of her, I learned resilience, motivation, and drive. My story is what fuels me.

People often assumed I’d become another statistic—a dropout, a teen mom, a single woman trapped in a cycle of abuse and abandonment. Many even warned their children to stay away from me, believing I was a bad influence. I wasn’t seen as someone to look up to—but rather someone to avoid. The judgment hurt, but I listened closely—not to the doubt, but to the lessons.

My mom’s voice was the one that echoed the loudest in my mind: “No te dejes. Échale ganas.” and “Don’t make the same choices I did. Do better. There’s so much you can do with your life.” That became my mantra.

I broke the cycle. I didn’t become pregnant at 16. I avoided the trap of toxic relationships. Instead, I focused on education and earned my Bachelor’s degree in Sociology. I initially pursued social work, believing that my background gave me the empathy and insight to support others. But over time, I realized I needed to pause and figure out who I was outside of survival mode. I began to travel the world and learn from other cultures. During my trip to Costa Rica, I found myself reflecting on my life and asking myself what is it that I wanted for myself. How I can motivate others who have similar challenges and encourage them to pursue their dreams. That was my starting point.

Growing up, I knew things no child should have to know—how CPS operates, what it’s like visiting someone in jail, how to apply for food stamps. But after college, I gave myself permission to explore what I truly wanted in life.

I started working at a speech clinic with children, then transitioned to supporting college students at the CSULB Engineering Student Success Center. There, I discovered a passion for working in educational settings. I found joy in helping students with advising, registration, peer mentoring, and hiring processes. It became clear to me that I want to stay in school environments—supporting and empowering students, whether they’re in middle school or college.

Now, I’m at a crossroads between pursuing school psychology or counseling in higher education. The age group I ultimately want to work with will guide my next steps.

I share my story not for sympathy, but to remind others: your beginnings do not define your ending. I am proof that cycles can be broken. That healing is possible. That success can be redefined.

Alright, so let’s dig a little deeper into the story – has it been an easy path overall and if not, what were the challenges you’ve had to overcome?
The path hasn’t been linear—and it certainly hasn’t been easy. While working at Little Voices Speech and Language Clinic, I found myself questioning everything. I was constantly overwhelmed with uncertainty, feeling like I was running in circles trying to figure out my purpose. I had so many conversations with both of my bosses, Nicole & Damon about what I wanted to do in life. I looked up to them and learned a lot about running a business but I still felt a sense of emptiness. A sense of urgency weighed on me, as if I was wasting time. Alongside these internal pressures, I was also on a deep journey of healing my inner child.
That period of reflection pushed me to explore. As a child, I didn’t have the privilege or exposure to know what opportunities even existed. So, in adulthood, I had to give myself the chance to discover what I actually enjoyed—what hobbies, interests, and career paths felt right to me.
To expand my perspective, I juggled multiple roles. I worked at the clinic during the week and managed leasing properties on the weekends. Eventually, I left the clinic altogether and enrolled in web development courses, curious to see if a tech career might be a fit. While I enjoyed the learning process, I realized that coding wasn’t something I could see myself doing long-term.
Leaving the clinic without another job lined up was scary. I was unemployed for three months—a time that could have easily been filled with panic. But I was fortunate. My boyfriend, Luis stepped in, covering the bills and encouraging me to take this time to truly figure out what I wanted.
That space to breathe allowed clarity to emerge.
In the middle of that transition, I booked a spontaneous trip to Costa Rica with my best friend Andrea —a moment that would shift everything. It was there, surrounded by nature and removed from the noise, that something clicked. While still abroad, I received an unexpected email: I had been offered a position at CSULB. I didn’t even remember applying. It felt like the universe had stepped in and answered the question I had been agonizing over.
Sometimes, the road to clarity looks like chaos. But in hindsight, every detour was guiding me exactly where I needed to be.

Can you tell our readers more about what you do and what you think sets you apart from others?
I began my journey in the Engineering Student Success Center as an Administrative Assistant and have since grown into a student support-focused role that combines administrative coordination with direct engagement. My work involves assisting with academic advising, coordinating student hiring, managing peer mentoring programs, and supporting student registration. I act as a key resource for students navigating their academic paths, and I thrive in helping them feel seen, supported, and empowered. My role blends administrative coordination with direct student engagement—exactly the kind of environment where I feel most impactful.
I’m now in the process of transitioning into a new role as the Academic Operations Coordinator for the College of Education’s academic departments—a promotion that reflects my growth, dedication, and continued passion for supporting students in higher education.
What sets me apart is the depth of support and genuine connection I bring to my student assistants and team. I’m often reminded of the impact I’ve made—not just academically, but personally—through everyday moments of mentorship, encouragement, and guidance. Whether it’s offering advice or helping them prepare for life’s challenges, I strive to be a consistent source of support. I’ve been described as approachable, motivating, and wise—qualities I take pride in. The relationships I build and the growth I witness in those I work with are what fuel my passion. Helping others blossom into their full potential is truly the most rewarding part of what I do.
Outside of work, I’ve also tapped into my creative side by picking up sewing as a hobby. I enjoy making baby blankets, book sleeves, Kindle sleeves, bookmarks, and book bags—little pieces of comfort and joy that reflect my attention to detail and love for thoughtful, handmade items. It’s become a calming and fulfilling outlet that complements the work I do with students, offering a different way to create and connect.

Do you any memories from childhood that you can share with us?
One of my favorite childhood memories is when my family would spend summers going to local fairs or Disneyland. What made those moments extra special was my aunt, who always rode every rollercoaster with me—no matter how many times I wanted to go. She never complained and always took one for the team just to make me happy. Looking back, I realize how much alike we are in spirit—adventurous, patient, and always showing up for the people we love.

Pricing:

• $25 book sleeves
• $20 Kindle sleeves
• $80 Baby blankets out of their baby clothes

Contact Info:

• Instagram: anythingforyessi
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/yesenia-carrillo-gonzalez-082a21171/
• Other: anythingforyessi on tiktok