Are you doing what you were born to do—or what you were told to do?

Culture, economic circumstances, family traditions, local customs and more can often influence us more than we realize. With the benefit of hindsight, we asked some wise and experienced members of our community whether they think they are doing what they were meant to do or told to do.

Christina Ashkarian

I believe I am doing what I was born to do—making people feel better about themselves. Whether it’s through my work, my writing, or simply how I show up in people’s lives, I’ve always felt called to lift others up. The people who get to see my real personality often tell me that I’m funny and that I always make them laugh. Read more>>

Carlton Dossou

I do feel like I’m living my purpose now. It wasn’t something I always knew I was going to do or even dreamt about as a child. But these past few years since college have been transformative. Read more>>

Jalen Wilhite

I’m doing what I was born to do. Even when the world tried to tell me otherwise, I followed the pull of creation — dancing, styling, and telling stories that mattered to me. Acting was my first love, and I plan on returning to it, bringing everything I’ve learned through dance and performance into that craft. Read more>>

Patrick Shatter

Throughout my life, I found myself following a set path, doing what others expected of me. This journey, while familiar, often led to feelings of depression and anxiety. I’ve come to realize that truly knowing our life’s purpose is not so straightforward. I believe that with enough belief and determination, we can shape our destinies, but it requires a commitment to the journey ahead. Read more>>

Jen Dallas

I consider myself lucky as I am doing what I was born to do. That’s not to say we aren’t born to do multiple things. As I am growing older I am discovering that as I serve my passions there are more to be discovered. Read more>>

Kyle Colton

I’m definitely doing what I was born to do And there are definitely people who feel I’m foolish for going after my dreams. But those people aren’t in my life And I’m inspiring others to go after their dreams Read more>>