Today we’d like to introduce you to Crystal Alexander
Hi Crystal, we’d love for you to start by introducing yourself.
The path to writing my book began after a traumatic event in 2005 when I was kidnapped by my ex-husband, an experience that nearly led to my death and triggered an Amber alert. I started writing during my trial as a way to heal from the abuse I had suffered. Although I never planned to become a self-published author, life unfolded in unexpected ways. I was a young mother, married too soon, and faced the tragic loss of my father and brother.
As I became a mother of five, I encountered the most heart-wrenching moment of my life when I lost my son to stage 4 cancer, holding him as he took his final breath. It was through writing that I found strength and helping me navigate the challenges I faced. believed that by sharing my story, I could reach out to both women and men who might relate to my experiences. My goal was to become an advocate, helping others understand that they are not alone. I wanted to be a voice for those who have suffered from sexual and physical abuse.
Can you talk to us a bit about the challenges and lessons you’ve learned along the way. Looking back would you say it’s been easy or smooth in retrospect?
My life has been anything but a smooth path for both myself and my children. There were challenging times, and despite being married, I frequently felt alone. The partners I selected were not suitable, and my experiences with sexual, mental, and physical abuse left me struggling to trust. I often grappled with feelings of insecurity, always looking for reassurance from others that I was loved. I also struggled with suicide many times but my faith in god and my children are what kept me down the right path.
Thanks – so what else should our readers know about your work and what you’re currently focused on?
While I proudly identify as an author today, my main commitment lies in being a momager for my daughter. I have a deep passion for talent management and love booking new opportunities. My experience also extends to the behind-the-scenes world, where I’ve helped direct, music videos, commercials and short films.
What do you like best about our city? What do you like least?
California holds a special place in my heart. Growing up in the vibrant city of Las Vegas, surrounded by the desert, I find the weather in California absolutely more delightful. Waking up to the sight of palm trees is a daily joy, and it’s inspiring to see so many people out early, jogging or hiking. The atmosphere is filled with happiness and rich culture. However, I do have one dislike the traffic can be quite a hassle and I don’t think I will ever like the traffic.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://brokenfromdarknesstoresilience.com/crystalchandler
- Instagram: Crystal_selfpub_author
- Other: Crystal_dessaraye
