We all think we’re being real—whether in public or in private—but the deeper challenge is questioning whether we truly know our real selves at all. In any case, even when we know ourselves we might face various pressures that push us to fit in or not cause trouble – so even the most well-intentioned person might struggle to always be 100% real in public. Sometimes the simplest questions are actually the most complex. Thankfully, we have some wonderful members of the community who offered to share their thoughts on this challenging question.
Jordaun
The public version of me is not real. Let me explain why. The public eye perceives me as a someone who has it all figured out. The smile on my face keeps people from noticing the internal battles that I deal with throughout my day to day. Read more >>>
Lanie Labens
I would say yes, a resounding yes. There are certain aspects of my life that aren’t for public consumption, of course. But what I do choose to share with the world is absolutely the real me. I honestly don’t know how to be any other way. I don’t mean that in a noble way, but in a literal way. Read more >>>
Dennis Haynes
The public version of me is the real me. I believe in being authentic and being hated for who I am, instead of being loved for who I’m not. As an author, I open my mind and heart up to my readers as I share my thoughts and beliefs. Read more >>>
Jonathan Yanez
Yesssss, I was just talking to my wife about this. We encounter people who portray themselves one way online and are totally different in real life all the time. It makes me sick and sad for them at the same time. You don’t have to pretend to be something or someone you’re not. Just be you. YOU are enough. Read more >>>
Abimael Acosta
I strive to be as genuine as possible between the public version of myself and who I truly am. Read more >>>
Tiffany Hudson-Specht
Yes and no. It is a part of me definitely. I am not fake. Unfortunately, I am honest and authentically me to a fault. But the public version of me is far more outgoing and social than the real me. The public version of me is confident and a leader. Read more >>>
Chevy Harvey
I like to believe everyone shows a part of their true selves to the public. Something’s aren’t meant for the public and for everyone to see. I’m not an open book however I’m a reading chapter that will make you want to continue reading the entire book. Read more >>>
Dawn Smith-Theodore
I believe in authenticity. I tell my clients that the outside and the inside have to match or there is like an earthquake going on inside of you. Be yourself and lead with honesty and integrity. People will be drawn to you. Read more >>>
