We’re looking forward to introducing you to Ashley Aleman. Check out our conversation below.
Ashley , a huge thanks to you for investing the time to share your wisdom with those who are seeking it. We think it’s so important for us to share stories with our neighbors, friends and community because knowledge multiples when we share with each other. Let’s jump in: What do you think others are secretly struggling with—but never say?
I think people secretly struggle with being open about their mental health because it can be hard to trust someone with what goes on inside your mind and what emotions you secretly feel. It’s easier to keep that to your self than being able to open up to someone about your thoughts and emotions. If you are currently struggling with anything deep inside you can open up to someone you have trust in to be there for you mentally and emotionally.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
Hello every one my name is Ashley the owner of AshleyCostmeticsLA ! I made this brand to show everyone you can do what you really want in this life as longest you keep putting effort and believing in yourself you will see results !! 2025 was a very tuff year for me personally to the point where I took a pause on my brand. I want to let everyone know who is reading this , it’s okay to take breaks especially for your mental health !! Don’t ever feel guilty about it. As longest you are gathering your strength and praying you got this !! Im working on products in the background for all the ladies you will be so happy when you see them ! Thank You for everyone loving support and patience xoxo!
Okay, so here’s a deep one: Who saw you clearly before you could see yourself?
Who saw me clearly before I can see myself was my parents and my real friends. They saw my potential before I could even see it. The days I wasn’t mentally well trying to figure out life from a depressive state.They were the ones who lifted me up and talked some sense into me to be a better version of myself on who want to become and grow into. Mentally I use to not be as positive and uplifting 5 years ago. I didn’t have the vision for my self 5 years ago. Im glad I can keep continuing on working on my growth , mental health and potential.
Was there ever a time you almost gave up?
Yes there was multiple times I wanted to give up on this. I have had allot of doubt especially in 2025 and the plan with my brand. I was going through allot mentally mostly in the middle of the year and I wanted to take it all down… but that was just fear and doubt calling my name. I really try my best to push through. I am a passionate and emotional person so when I feel deep in my emotions I feel it all. That’s why I really try not to dwell on things am not able to control but sometimes I really can’t help but feel deeply. You just got to see things from a different point of view and re adjust. You’re not alone. It’s okay to be passionate and emotional but it shouldn’t affect the goals you set for yourself. Always take a mental break when you need it the most.
Alright, so if you are open to it, let’s explore some philosophical questions that touch on your values and worldview. Is the public version of you the real you?
I can definitely say the “public version” of me is all me. Who I am behind closed doors is the same person you will always get in the public/outside. Im not a people pleaser I really can care less what anyone thinks about me. I am me. This is me. All my family/friends know who I am. That’s all that matters to me <3. My character and personality speaks for its self.
Thank you so much for all of your openness so far. Maybe we can close with a future oriented question. When do you feel most at peace?
Honestly I feel my most at peace when Im alone in solitude. I think better , I self reflect recharge my energy and also where I get most of my ideas from. I really just enjoy my own company. It’s like a way where I can just tune in to myself.
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