Meet Wenzdai Tosca of Los Angeles

Today we’d like to introduce you to Wenzdai Tosca

Alright, so thank you so much for sharing your story and insight with our readers. To kick things off, can you tell us a bit about how you got started?
I’ve always been an entrepreneur at heart. My first business venture was at the age of four, selling stickers I got from a woman at church to other kids for 10 cents each. My journey is a blend of life experience, entrepreneurship, passion, and alignment. The most common question I get is, “Wenzdai, what do you do?” But the real question should be, “What don’t I do?”

For the past decade, I’ve been deeply immersed in the entertainment and sports industries. Growing up, I dreamed of owning a magazine, inspired by the 2000s advertising exec model. But as the industry transitioned to the digital landscape, I found new ways to channel my skills in writing, marketing, negotiation, and understanding personal dynamics. This led me naturally into the entertainment world, where I found the perfect entry point to begin my career.

During college and after graduation, I worked with top talent in music and landed a mentorship with the VP of Atlantic Records. Mar Brown saw my potential and generously shared his guidance and wisdom, helping me kickstart my journey. I later transitioned into working for a sports agency, taking on various roles and responsibilities in sports and entertainment-related opportunities.

In 2017, I finally had the financial freedom to pursue one of my lifelong dreams. Inspired by the Millionaire Matchmaker and my own history of rocky relationships, I turned to my academic background in sociology, psychology, and personality theory to become a self-proclaimed dating enthusiast. That fall, I hosted my first dating matchmaking mixer in Los Angeles for 60 people. I made four matches and created a unique dating event experience that resonated with the urban community. The event was such a success that I was urged to continue, leading me to create content and build a community around dating advice, covering topics like s*x, shame, heartbreak, and more.

Within two years, this community grew to over 100,000 followers on my personal page.

M+W Topics became the go-to hub for modern dating, providing the tools and insights needed to navigate today’s dating landscape with confidence. I love love, but my journey was riddled with heartbreak, identity crises, isolation, and fear. With no place to share my struggles, I turned to the internet, like many in my generation. I quickly realized that my struggle was everyone’s struggle—confidence, insecurities, intimacy. Through creating videos and engaging in thousands of conversations, vulnerability became our new normal, and sharing my personal story became a safe space for others.

Meanwhile, I was still working in the sports and entertainment industry, realizing that I could do more to help my peers. They had people managing their health and finances, but their relationships were often left in the hands of those who were ill-equipped or untrustworthy. We all need guidance, and I made it my mission to create a nurturing space where talent could find healing, rest, protection, and understanding. This led to the birth of Amoris Nexum.

At Amoris Nexum, we support a crucial area of our clients’ lives—personal and professional relationships—providing guidance with the utmost discretion. We understand the unique challenges our clients face in the public eye and offer tailored solutions to navigate these complexities. By prioritizing genuine relationships and transparent communication, we aim to establish a reputation for trustworthiness while offering unparalleled expertise in navigating evolving landscapes and promoting authenticity and meaningful connections.

Can you talk to us a bit about the challenges and lessons you’ve learned along the way. Looking back would you say it’s been easy or smooth in retrospect?
Yes and no. I’m very optimistic and believe everything happens for a reason, ultimately for my good and to bring my desires to life. In reality, that often looks like delays, ending relationships, self-doubt, being your own toughest critic, and the entrepreneurial frustration of wondering, “Where is the money?!” Anything that comes from the heart doesn’t always bring instant financial gratification. I’ve given more free dating advice than you can imagine. But when asked what I would do willingly for free, it’s listening to others share their intimate experiences so I can help them.

As a woman in business, navigating the long haul teaches you to become a skilled sailor. It may look easy from the outside, but the trade-offs at every turn teach you to prioritize boundaries, recognize that respect is critical, and understand that femininity is magnetic. There’s always a way to say things, and how you say them matters.

Alright, so let’s switch gears a bit and talk business. What should we know about your work?
In the ever-evolving landscape of modern dating, I bring a fresh and unique perspective to the table. As the founder of M+W Topics, I specialize in guiding millennials and younger generations through the complexities of dating, intimacy, and self-discovery. My work is not just about offering advice; it’s about revolutionizing how people think, feel, and perceive relationships—starting with the one they have with themselves.

With a profound understanding of intimacy and its impact on interpersonal relationships, I draw on seven years of dedicated experience and a background in Marketing and PR to offer insights that go beyond the surface. My dating guides emphasize the power of self-discovery and pleasure, helping individuals change their mindset to attract and align with their ideal partners.

I’m most proud of the community I’ve built, now over 200,000 strong, as it represents the beginning of real impact. This community is the foundation for meaningful change in how we approach love and relationships. Secondly, I’m proud of my own journey of self-discovery, which has allowed me to be vulnerable and embrace imperfection. This personal growth enables me to address the real issues people face with authenticity and empathy.

In addition to my expertise, I’ve authored several dating guides and offered advice on platforms like GQ, Playboy, The New York Times, and Newsweek. Now, I’m expanding into offering physical products that enhance people’s dating lives, continuing my mission to empower others in their journey of self-love and connection.

What are your plans for the future?
M+W Topics is the home and next major community for future interviewers, media professionals, advisors, coaches, and dating enthusiasts in the relationships space! My team and I have been fine-tuning the business model, and we’re thrilled about what’s ahead. We have exciting products on the horizon aimed at improving connections. This fall, M+W Topics will be hitting the airwaves.

In the realm of sports emotional well-being, Amoris Nexum is poised as the premier agency for advising and development, helping athletes and entertainers navigate the spotlight and manage their most critical personal challenges. At the heart of everything we do is connection—it’s the key to success.

Contact Info:

• Website: amorisnexum.com and mwtopics.com
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wenzdaithegoat
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/p/Wenzdai-Wednesday-Tosca-100067199195945/
• Twitter: https://x.com/wenzdaithegoat
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@mwtopics

Image Credits
@shotbyron
@larryfeybrands