Today we’d like to introduce you to Jennifer Miller
Hi Jennifer, can you start by introducing yourself? We’d love to learn more about how you got to where you are today?
I moved to Los Angeles with my daughter 6 years ago after leaving an abusive relationship. At the time it felt like I was running for my life and LA became a safe place to me disappear, and start from zero. I knew LA was the right place for us because it’s full of ambition and dreamers. No dream is too big here. You can meet people who are living the life you want, and that motivated me.
I’ve always been an entrepreneur at heart. As a child, I would stand by our driveway and sell my toys to people walking by. I knew someday I’d have my own business but raising a child on my own has been the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Working towards building a life that had safety, and stability meant my goals had to take a back seat in order to move our lives forward.
I pick up books from the library often. During the pandemic I read many books on slow living, and how we’re so busy for no reason. I saw a quote about how women are rarely seen unhurried. My nervous system was used to being in “running away mode.” I slowly started to create safety in my mind that reflected the safety I had created in our home.
Tea Party Girls Club is the embodiment of what I’ve cultivated in my soul. A safe place for women. A place where there’s no need to rush or hide. A place where abundance is normal.
We all face challenges, but looking back would you describe it as a relatively smooth road?
The hardest part about starting a business is always our self-limitations. As a single mom, the day-to-day life feels like an impossible mountain to climb. We are simply not meant to do this alone, but if you wait for someone to save the day, you’ll wait forever.
I think the biggest shift for me happened when I realized that asking for help was a strength. It required more courage to tell someone what I needed than to do everything myself. The question is not whether we can do it alone or not. The question is why we feel like we have to.
I learned to ask for help not because I was weak, but because I was worthy of help. I realized that I was worthy of people showing up for me when I needed it the most. I would not be here today if I did not have the courage to tell the people around me what I needed. Even something as simple as asking a man to help me carry a heavy box started to create more space for me to have the capacity to dream again.
We’ve been impressed with Tea Party Girls Club, but for folks who might not be as familiar, what can you share with them about what you do and what sets you apart from others?
We specialize in hosting Tea Party Events with a modern twist, offering everything from private celebrations like baby showers and birthdays to partnering with local social clubs to bring women together in an inclusive and welcoming environment.
Tea Party Girls Club is an event designed to help women enjoy life—like stepping into a scene from a movie. Our goal is to transport guests to the tea party their child-self would’ve dreamed of, where every detail is full of magic. It’s about tapping into that sense of wonder, reminding women that it’s okay to embrace play and celebrate themselves.
What sets us apart is our focus on fostering genuine connections in a city like Los Angeles, where it’s easy to feel disconnected. Every detail of our events—from the curated tea selections to the thoughtfully designed decor—is crafted to make guests feel special and cared for.
Tea Party Girls Club isn’t just about tea parties; it’s about slowing down, being present, and sharing moments of joy with others. We heal through relationships. Whether it’s a small gathering or a larger event, we aim to leave guests feeling inspired and connected.
What would you say have been one of the most important lessons you’ve learned?
Self-care has become more essential than ever. We cannot fulfill our life’s purpose if we are constantly burnt out.
I’m not talking about the trendy self-care routines. This is about getting to know yourself and what you need, then building a lifestyle that allows you to fill up when your tank is empty. For some people that might be meeting up with friends more often, for others that might be spending more time alone.
The goal of self-care is to take care of yourself the same way we take care of our loved ones. You’d be surprised how many single moms don’t get their basic needs met consistently. Not to mention 8 hours of sleep, nutrient-packed meals, and exercise.
I learned to advocate for myself and got more comfortable investing in myself. The moment I prioritized my well-being, life started getting easier. It’s as simple as putting my phone on “do not disturb” and going to bed.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.teapartygirlsclub.com/
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/teapartygirlsclub
- Other: https://teapartyevents.hbportal.co/public/teapartyinquiry
