Today we’d like to introduce you to Vanessa Valente
Hi Vanessa, so excited to have you with us today. What can you tell us about your story?
My story is one of evolution, resilience, and embracing the unexpected. Along the way, I’ve developed a strong sense of discipline, leadership, and a deep commitment to living with intention. Each chapter of my life has shaped how I show up, with purpose, structure, and a willingness to grow through whatever challenges arise.
However, my story didn’t stop there. I ventured into the world of reality television, which unexpectedly opened doors to media, storytelling, and public engagement. Appearing on Temptation Island introduced me to a broader audience, allowing me to share my experiences, perspectives, and personal growth in ways I never imagined. This platform gave me the opportunity to connect with people on a more personal level, especially women navigating their own journeys in love, identity, and self-worth.
From there, I channeled my energy into Peaceful Pathway, a project aimed at supporting and empowering women. Whether through mentorship, advocacy, or simply sharing my experiences, I’ve been dedicated to creating spaces where women feel seen, heard, and supported.
Now, as I continue balancing my procurement acquisitions career, media presence, and advocacy work, I see my path as a blend of structure and creativity, using my platform to inspire, educate, and uplift. I believe every chapter of my journey has contributed to who I am today, and I look forward to what’s next.
Would you say it’s been a smooth road, and if not what are some of the biggest challenges you’ve faced along the way?
Not at all, my journey has been anything but smooth, but I believe the challenges have shaped me just as much as the successes.
Serving in the military comes with its own set of struggles, balancing personal life, and long-term aspirations. There have been moments of isolation, sacrifice, and the need to constantly prove myself in high-pressure environments. Transitioning into the public eye through reality TV was another unexpected challenge. While it provided opportunities, it also came with scrutiny, misconceptions, and the pressure to navigate a space where people often judge without knowing the full story.
On a personal level, relationships, self-discovery, and redefining what I truly want in life have been some of my biggest tests. Learning to set boundaries, understanding my worth, and making decisions that align with my values haven’t always been easy, but they’ve been necessary.
Through it all, I’ve learned resilience, adaptability, and the power of owning my narrative. The road hasn’t been smooth, but I wouldn’t change a thing, every obstacle has pushed me toward growth and a deeper understanding of myself.
Thanks for sharing that. So, maybe next you can tell us a bit more about your work?
My work is a unique blend of media, strategy, and advocacy—three areas that rarely intersect but have come together to shape a career that’s both purposeful and dynamic. I specialize in managing complex projects and high-level negotiations, where precision, ethical leadership, and long-term vision are essential. This foundation has empowered me to lead with integrity, communicate with impact, and build meaningful connections across industries.
Although my work in strategic business has been deeply fulfilling, but it was reality television and public engagement that allowed me to connect with people in a more personal, unexpected way. My time on Temptation Island opened up authentic conversations around relationships, growth, and resilience. I’ve used that platform to share my truth, inspire others, and build meaningful connections beyond the screen.
One of the things I’m most proud of is Peaceful Pathway, a project focused on empowering and supporting women. Whether through mentorship, advocacy, or simply providing a safe space for women to share their journeys, I’m passionate about making a meaningful impact.
What sets me apart is my ability to move between structured, high-stakes environments and deeply personal, human-centered spaces. I’m not just someone who excels in leadership and strategy, I also understand people, emotions, and the power of connection. My goal isn’t just success on paper; it’s about creating a legacy that blends intellect, influence, and genuine impact.
Before we go, is there anything else you can share with us?
We spend so much time chasing stability, clarity, and answers, but the truth is, life isn’t meant to be figured out, it’s meant to be experienced. The beauty is in the unfolding, in the unexpected turns, in the evolution of self. Who I was yesterday is not who I am today, and who I am today won’t be who I am tomorrow. That’s the gift of growth.
I’ve learned that power isn’t just in intelligence, success, or external validation, it’s in the ability to remain deeply rooted in yourself, even when everything around you is shifting. The world will try to define you, to fit you into a mold, to convince you that you must follow a certain path to be “successful” or “worthy.” But the most profound thing you can do is trust your own becoming.
Contact Info:
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vanillaknowsbest?igsh=MW16cDNieG4yam4xYg%3D%3D&utm_source=qr
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1USZ9T92gs/?mibextid=wwXIfr
Image Credits
Please don’t use these photos. I couldn’t bypass the form unless I uploaded two. I’ll submit photos via email within the next week, they’re currently being edited by a team. Sorry for the delay.
I’ll also provide both email addresses for the local gems via email as well.
