Today we’d like to introduce you to Shari James.
Shari, please share your story with us. How did you get to where you are today?
Little did I know that back in 1992 when, with butterflies in my stomach and En Vouge’s “Free Your Mind” blaring in the background, that 1st step on stage in a Canadian strip club… would represent my 1st initiation into becoming a sexual healer.
At the same time, I was in college to become a Registered Nurse. Upon graduation, I received my RN license and went on to specialize in diabetic and post open heart care. My 2nd initiation occurred after I moved to Los Angeles, and was introduced to an underground sorority of women who trained me in the ancient tradition of the Erotic Arts and Tantra. Tantric bodywork created a more intimate container that allowed me to relate more deeply with men and see first hand their struggles with “manhood issues.”
The 3rd initiation came in the form of a spiritual awakening also know as a kundalini awakening. After this men, women, and couples started showing up in my life to heal their sexual issues and I intuitively knew how to help them. During this time I accidentally stumbled on the beginnings of healing a man’s erectile dysfunction without using pills. Now, years later I’ve perfected my approach by combining my education in Western Medicine with my experience and understanding of Kundalini/Sexual Energy, Tantra and studies of the 5 Elements of Chinese Medicine. The manifestation of this is approach is called the BE FIRM BLUEPRINT.
Great, so let’s dig a little deeper into the story – has it been an easy path overall and if not, what were the challenges you’ve had to overcome?
The biggest challenge in working with sexuality is societal judgment and projections. One has to achieve of a high level of self-mastery and unwavering boundaries. I have to be sensitive and feeling to be an effective healer, yet deal with the frequent “beat downs” of putting my work out there.
I can’t just purchase ads on social media like everyone else and social media posts must be watered down… generic sounding. A major merchant cancelled me without warning and put me in the same category as felony drugs, firearms and prostitution. I don’t touch anyone, in fact, most of my work is virtual. I’m healing, teaching and coaching but I get lumped into the sex category.
I have days that I wish I had a different calling. That’s when it’s time to stop, feel, and then dig in and keep going.
We’d love to hear more about your work.
I specialize in helping men heal Erectile Dysfunction and Premature Ejaculation without pills. I offer a proven holistic approach for men who struggle with erectile dysfunction and do not want to take pills, have taken them and did not get results or can not take them because of side effects.
What sets me apart is my background and how much I care. My competitors are basically pharmaceutical companies and they don’t heal the issue but just mask it temporarily.
Do you look back particularly fondly on any memories from childhood?
My favorite childhood memory is spending time alone in nature at my grandparent’s cabin in upstate New York.
Contact Info:
- Website: www.shari-james.com
- Email: [email protected]
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharijamescoaching/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaRiJaMesPage/
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/SHaRi_JaMeS
- Yelp: https://www.yelp.com/biz/shari-james-rn-los-angeles-2?osq=shari+james
- Other: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shari-james-rn-68382072/
Image Credit:
Zentography.net for play flowers.jpg & shariprayer.jpg
Johann Wolf for classroomIMG.jpg
Jenn Starr for Homepagefinal.jeg
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