Hidden Gems: Meet Mardi Winder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC

Today we’d like to introduce you to Mardi Winder.

Hi Mardi , so excited to have you on the platform. So before we get into questions about your work-life, maybe you can bring our readers up to speed on your story and how you got to where you are today?
Over 30 years ago, when my marriage ended after five years, it wasn’t dramatic or messy, at least not at the start of the divorce. There were no custody fights or financial disasters; we didn’t have kids, and our finances were simple. The legal side was pretty straightforward, which I know is not always the case. Still, even a simple divorce brings a mix of emotions. There were moments of doubt, frustration, anger, and fear about what life would look like next. I struggled with worrying about details, what others would think, and even how I would move forward.
At that time, you simply went to a divorce attorney. There were limited options in professionals outside of mediators and therapists. The result was a time that I felt isolated and didn’t have anyone to talk to about the issues that wasn’t billing by the quarter hour!
However, that time gave me a chance to slow down and think about what I wanted moving forward. I looked at where I was in my life and asked myself if I was living in a way that matched what I believed in and cared about most.At that point, I had a good career, a strong network, and a clear sense of direction. But I also realized that over time, I had quietly put parts of myself aside to keep things running smoothly. Like many women, I had adjusted to situations that didn’t quite fit and convinced myself it was fine.
My divorce didn’t break me. It helped me find clarity. It pushed me to learn about conflict resolution and mediation, and that eventually led me to become a certified divorce transition coach and credentialed mediator. I also spent time working as a domestic violence client advocate, helping women leave unsafe relationships and take legal steps to protect themselves. Those experiences opened my eyes to how overwhelming and impersonal the legal system can feel, especially for women who are already exhausted and scared.
What stood out most to me was how many high-achieving women and men go through divorce feeling completely alone. These people lead teams, run businesses, raise families, and still manage to hold everything together.. They are doing it all, but often without a place where they can let down their guard and be honest about how hard it really is and ask for help without feeling judged.
That is what inspired me to build my coaching practice. I wanted to create a space where people can ask questions, discuss their choices, and confidently move forward. Divorce is a significant life change, but it doesn’t have to define who you are. It can be the beginning of finding yourself again and creating a life that feels true to who you are now.

Would you say it’s been a smooth road, and if not what are some of the biggest challenges you’ve faced along the way?
Obstacles are a part of life, and that includes obstacles in building a business. When I first started divorce coaching almost 10 years ago, it was relatively new. Now, it is recognized by the American Bar Association, which helps to spread awareness. However, a lot of education is still required to let people know that divorce coaches are instrumental in helping reduce the emotional and financial costs of the process.

Other challenges include the whole entrepreneurship journey and the rapid evolution of technology. Thankfully, I am at a place in life where I have a great team that surrounds me, allowing me to focus on working with my amazing clients.

As you know, we’re big fans of Positive Communication Systems, LLC. For our readers who might not be as familiar what can you tell them about the brand?
I help people navigate the emotional and practical challenges of divorce with clarity, confidence, and purpose. As a Certified Divorce Transition Coach, High Conflict Divorce Coach, mediator, and author of From I Do to I’m Done: A Woman’s Guide to Preparing for Divorce, I guide clients in reducing conflict, managing the emotional and financial costs of divorce, and building a future that aligns with their values and goals. I bring over 30 years of experience in mediation and conflict resolution, along with a deep understanding of the pressures people face during major life transitions.
I am also the host of The D Shift: Redefining Divorce and Beyond podcast, where I share conversations and insights to help people redefine what life after divorce can look like. My approach combines professional expertise with compassion, helping clients move forward with strength and self-assurance.
I work one-on-one with clients using a framework to identify where they are in the divorce process, what needs to be done and considered at that stage, and how they can make critical mindset shifts to ensure they have a strong foundation for post-divorce life. We also focus on mediation preparation, conflict resolution, better communication, and how to support children through the divorce and build a better coparenting relationship moving forward.

Is there something surprising that you feel even people who know you might not know about?
I live happily on a farm in Texas with my dogs, cats, chickens, horses, and a miniature donkey named Juan Pablo, who is quite a character! Although Texas has been my home for over twenty years, I am a Canadian and enjoy traveling, yoga, and spending time in the great outdoors.

Contact Info:

• Website: www.poscs.com, www.divorcecoach4women.com
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/
• Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women
• Other: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-d-shift/id1639714009