Today we’d like to introduce you to Novalee Wilder.
Hi Novalee, can you start by introducing yourself? We’d love to learn more about how you got to where you are today.
I grew up in Denmark and was always interested in acting and creative pursuits. As a child, I spent my days reading, escaping into daydreams, and building treehouses. As soon as I could start choosing courses and schools for myself everything I wanted to do was acting and I felt immensely at home in creative spaces.
One of the things I love in acting is the pursuit and expression of truth on stage. Growing up I found myself being in situations where everything felt like a facade, where the adults around me were performing their roles and hiding the emotions under a thick layer of what was appropriate and expected. I felt that pointing out the stiltedness of a conversation or reacting to the real emotions going on was never met with affirmation.
It was like the world had decided that real emotions and reactions were too dangerous and unpredictable. Pursuing acting meant that I could be in spaces where people reacted to and expressed their full emotional spectrum and in turn demystified the whole art of it. We go to the theater to feel and see what we have suppressed in our everyday life. When I later found numerology through a name change I saw that my intuitive nature as an actor stretched beyond the stage.
Diving into spirituality meant that I could put words and terms to even more information I was getting from a person or around a situation. Training as a numerologist opened up my world in areas where I had not had a language before. I realized living in secularized society meant that no one around me was talking and sharing about how things like clairvoyance, clairsentience, clairaudience, and so on show up.
Anything spiritual was linked to religion and ridiculed. I thought that everyone was picking up on the same things but that we had collectively decided to ignore them. In my work today I use all the skills and tools I was born with and the gift that acting gave me is that my clients get to learn about themselves in a fun and engaging way. I believe that spirituality should validate and not alienate.
Would you say it’s been a smooth road, and if not what are some of the biggest challenges you’ve faced along the way?
As I made it out of my twenties and into my thirties I had to acknowledge that my body and intuition have always known what the right thing, the right person, the right job, and the right path was. My brain and so-called conventional logic have been getting in my way and slowed me down.
My biggest obstacles have been comparing myself to others and spending time with people whose outlook on life and everything in it was too bleak and pessimistic. It is such a safe and comfortable place to be for most and it is detrimental to getting traction on your dreams and goals.
If my conversation with someone always circles the negative things in their life over and over again I know that their mindset will affect me. I had to realize that this is a default state for many and how to consistently focus on the good means that more opportunities show up. Good things come to people who keep the door open for them.
Thanks for sharing that. So, maybe next you can tell us a bit more about your work?
I work as a Professional Numerologist which means I help people change their names and empower them to step fully into what they are here to do, experience, and share with others in this lifetime. Numerology is the foundation of astrology and is connected to the core of all of the ancient esoteric sciences.
Through it I help find formation dates for businesses, launch dates for products and services, naming children, pets, companies, and more. I help people pick prices that sell and own their expertise and brilliance. My favorite thing is guiding people through a personal name change and seeing them release old programming and ideas.
Often people go through so many life-altering experiences in their first year after a name change that they come out as completely different people on the other end. This is very rewarding work. I also write, teach and share about numerology through The Numerology School and The Numerology Podcast.
If we knew you growing up, how would we have described you?
I am the youngest of four sisters and spend most of my childhood by myself in the company of books. I roamed the gardens, fields, and lake I grew up around and had a lot of freedom to just be.
I was early on very independent and never really felt homesick or attached to any place in particular. As a voracious reader, I traveled more in my mind than my school friends and to this day my favorite thing is to get completely lost in a new book.
Contact Info:
- Website: www.novaleewilder.com
- Instagram: www.instagram.com/novaleewilder
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/novaleenumerology/
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/novaleewilder
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjSk4f56ILaJ7KwW8qzZ9fQ
Image Credits
Melodee Solomon and Dillon Ford
