Brian Lambert’s Stories, Lessons & Insights

Brian Lambert shared their story and experiences with us recently and you can find our conversation below.

Hi Brian , thank you for taking the time to reflect back on your journey with us. I think our readers are in for a real treat. There is so much we can all learn from each other and so thank you again for opening up with us. Let’s get into it: What is a normal day like for you right now?
I spend most every day in front of computer screens. Right now, I’m in development on a couple projects, so it’s just long days of hacking away at scripts, writing emails, and working on concept art and pitches. Luckily, I have a watch that reminds me to get up out of my seat and get moving every once in a while, or I think I might become a permanent part of the furniture!

Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
Inasmuch as this is a film town, I’m not unique at all. But as a creative, every one of us is unique. That uniqueness of vision and of voice is what makes our work special. Even if you don’t think there’s a deeper meaning in something you’ve made, I guarantee you there is, because your creativity springs out of a meaning that only you can produce with your own vision. You have to be in touch with that, and you have to be willing to constantly learn and expose yourself to new ideas and new viewpoints. I’ve been obsessed with film and filmmaking since I was seven years old, and it has grown and changed and developed me in ways I can’t possibly explain.

Thanks for sharing that. Would love to go back in time and hear about how your past might have impacted who you are today. What breaks the bonds between people—and what restores them?
Trust. Trust is everything. It can create the strongest connections, or completely shatter them. I think one of the most painful lessons we learn in life is trust. Nothing hurts more than having your trust betrayed. But an even bigger lesson, one that I’m still learning at this time of my life, is forgiveness. It’s hard to forgive. Impossible sometimes. The most helpful thing I have learned when it comes to forgiveness is that it doesn’t mean you have to continue on with that person, but that you are releasing them, and choosing to release the toxicity that comes with holding onto unforgiveness.

Was there ever a time you almost gave up?
Absolutely! Many times. Being a creative is hard. We are harder on ourselves than anybody, and we feel DEEPLY. Every time we get frustrated, we want to throw our hands in the air and bail. I have given up certain parts of my trade many times. “I shouldn’t be a writer.” “I can’t direct.” “I’m the worst at-” and it’s perfectly okay to feel that way. We want things to work, and we want things to come to life as we’ve seen them in our brains. I’ve learned that sometimes giving up, or at least taking a break from something, is all part of the process. Trust it.

Sure, so let’s go deeper into your values and how you think. What are the biggest lies your industry tells itself?
Two words: “You can’t.” Never, ever listen to that. You can do whatever you want, even more so now that technology has put all the tools in everybody’s hands. You can write. You can shoot a movie on your phone. You can edit on your laptop. There are tools EVERYWHERE, and it has, in many ways, leveled that playing field. You don’t have the restrictions I had coming up. Your ability, your experience, your age, race, or gender- none of that matters anymore. Never, even listen to an “industry” person tell you you can’t.

Okay, we’ve made it essentially to the end. One last question before you go. Could you give everything your best, even if no one ever praised you for it?
I believe you should always give your best. Praise means nothing. It’s fleeting. Having a strong work ethic and a solid belief in yourself and your abilities is far more important. I have to admit to having a certain bias, though, against recognition and awards. It’s always made me uncomfortable. It’s nice to know that someone appreciates your work, but to be lauded for anything really puts me on my heels. I’m working on that.

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