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Meet Marci Fedor of Left Brain Love in Orange County

Today we’d like to introduce you to Marci Fedor.

Marci, can you briefly walk us through your story – how you started and how you got to where you are today.
After 30 years together, my ex gave me a “surprise” divorce. After so much time together, I really was unprepared for single life. My hopes and dreams were all connected to the success of my marriage and my kids. And when the marriage ended, and my children were grown and out in the world making their own way, I had some reevaluating to do.

Not only was my safety net gone, there was no one to focus on but myself. What was I going to do now? Was I free falling or was I free? That false sense of security was, in fact, holding me back. When I went to a therapist for help, she eventually suggested I start dating. I thought she was crazy! Why would I open myself up to that much pain and disappointment again? Then I thought of life without anyone to share it with and decided that I deserved to have the life of my dreams. One shared with an exceptional, devoted and trustworthy partner. Suddenly, dating became and adventure instead of a burden. I met my beloved with an online dating app. And we have been happily married for seven years.

Online dating was a crazy experience. I had no idea what it was all about, I hadn’t been on the dating scene since I was 17 years old. I got the special $30 for 30 days. And I was determined to get my money’s worth! I went on dates Mon-Thurs and doubled up on Sat. It was exhausting! And I wasn’t attracting quality dates, no surprise there. Then I went through a total transformation. Both inward and outward. I began to give my body all the things it needed to be its best: good food, exercise and rest. I took a good long look at what didn’t work in my marriage and took full responsibility for making the changes I needed to stop the patterns I didn’t want to repeat. And then worked to create a sense of vitality and excitement for life I had never had before.

And went online again and the 3rd date in I found my present husband. That is when I realized I had discovered something special I could pass on to others like me who don’t need a mate but feel life could be fuller and more satisfying with one. And who aren’t willing to settle for anything less than the perfect fit for them. I went back to school and became a Certified Health Coach, a Relationship Coach and a Master Transformational Coach and serve clients all around the world to discover their roadmap back to love. Since 2010 I have been helping highly intellectual singles get healthy, eliminate what is preventing them from having the life and love they desire and to raise their personal vibration, so they naturally attract their ideal mate.

Great, so let’s dig a little deeper into the story – has it been an easy path overall and if not, what were the challenges you’ve had to overcome?
No, no. Not smooth at all! Those first 30 dates were laughable. The problem was definitely me! All the people I met were lovely, just not the right one.

After my divorce, I needed to look at who I was being in the world and what I wanted in a mate. I am an analytical person so of course, I made a kind of checklist. I am a bit of a geek that way, I love order, logic and solid evidence. Which is why I can relate to the intellectuals I serve.

When I looked at what I needed, it was easy. But a bit more challenging to identify what I wanted. It was humbling to realize that there was more to life than work, accomplishing tasks, and reaching goals. Life was dull and without delightful surprises.

I started to do all the things I wanted and life became an adventure. All that was missing was someone special to share it with.

The hardest part was becoming vulnerable enough to open myself to love again. I’m so glad I did. Now my life is bigger, fuller and more satisfying.

Left Brain Love – what should we know? What do you do best? What sets you apart from the competition?
Left Brain Love is my company that focuses on helping Intellectuals to design their roadmap back to love. I am proud to help logical and left brain dominant people to use the skills they already have to attract the kind of love that is a perfect fit.

I believe that the programs I offer are unique as I am focused on the transformation of my clients. I use Brain Science, NLP, and visualization and hypnosis to help them create an adventurous and love filled life.

And I believe my education, experience and personal traits set me apart from others in the love coaching field. Even though I am dealing with serious subjects, I have a light way about myself. My clients often say I make it fun & easy to take steps forward towards a better life.

What moment in your career do you look back most fondly on?
I have had many successful moments in my career including serving many intellectuals, CEOs, Doctors, Managers, and CFOs. I have been one of the leading expert love coaches on international summits. I have been asked to mentor students in both my transformation school and life coaching school. I have written two books and opened Left Brain Love Academy. But my proudest moment is always the same. I am proudest of my clients. It’s when I see a client light up when they are doing my program. When they just get how amazing they are and how much they have to offer. For example, I had a client who lost over 80 lbs, freed himself from old patterns, created boundaries in his relationships, got a promotion at work, and fulfilled a lifelong dream of becoming a deep-sea diver. I was looking through my Facebook feed when I saw his posting of tropical places. When I reached out to congratulate him, he told me how he had recently started dating a hot blond doctor! (His idea of a dream girl) How amazing is that?

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